Add watchOptions to tsconfig and allow supplying them on command line as well (#35615)

* Create different watch options in compiler options

* Thread through the new watch options

* Actually use the options passed through for watch strategy

* Support delay on updating child directory watches

* Make watchOptions separate from compilerOptions

* Support passing watch options from command line

* Handle displaying of watchOptions

src/compiler/builder.ts

@@ -754,7 +754,7 @@ namespace ts {
 
     function convertToReusableCompilerOptions(options: CompilerOptions, relativeToBuildInfo: (path: string) => string) {
         const result: CompilerOptions = {};
-        const optionsNameMap = getOptionNameMap().optionNameMap;
+        const { optionsNameMap } = getOptionsNameMap();
 
         for (const name in options) {
             if (hasProperty(options, name)) {
@@ -1194,4 +1194,4 @@ namespace ts {
             return Debug.assertDefined(state.program);
         }
     }
-}
+}