Fixed a false positive related to binding patterns and spread expressions (#49684)

* Fixed a false positive related to binding patterns and spread expressions

* Improve ancestor lookup when checking if an expression is spread into an object

* Fixed ancestor lookup for more node types

* Remove equality check for contextual types

* Reformat code

* Use `isWithinSpreadAssignment` flag + `objectsWithinSpread` cache instead of ancestor traversal

* Revert "Use `isWithinSpreadAssignment` flag + `objectsWithinSpread` cache instead of ancestor traversal"

This reverts commit be387e3bbf.

* Expand on the existing comment

tests/cases/compiler/spreadExpressionContainingObjectExpressionContextualType.ts

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+// @noEmit: true
+
+// repro #49585
+
+const { value } = (() => ({
+  value: "",
+  ...(true ? {} : {}),
+}))();
+
+// repro 49684#discussion_r920545763
+
+const { value2 } = {
+  value2: "",
+  ...(() => true ? {} : {})(),
+};