feat: add ChangeEmailCommand [PM-35830]
- Add ChangeEmailCommand to encapsulate core email change logic
- Add OrganizationDomainAllowEmailChangeQuery returning OrganizationDomainAllowEmailChangeDenialReason enum so callers can branch on the specific denial reason, if any
- Surface tailored BadRequestException messages per denial reason via a switch expression that fails closed on unknown values
- Push sync-only notification (no logout)
- Add unit tests covering denial reasons, domain case invariance, and the null-customerId-with-gateway path